Eureka!!!
With the help of my good friend kiki i have deduced the following:
Until young women/girls grow up emotionally, they will always be attracted to assholes and nice guys will finish last. My logic is such... in my personal experience, the ex dated a guy who walked all over her and treated her like crap. When we dated, i treated her respectably and always gave her a say in everything. We never had any big arguments or fights so things were generally good. While i do not approve of walking all over your gf, there is a certain sense of loyalty that those types of girls develop as a result of the emotional rollercoaster ride they go on all the time. When they have arguments, they are usually significantly large fights about things. When things are good, everything appears to be superbly excellent because there is peace and tranquility. So, the girl sees the relationship as a function f(x) = of ups and downs, but the happiness punctuated by huge fights once a week or so provides a blinding euphoria that makes the boyfriend the "best in the world". However, if you treat your gf with respect and do not act like your are gods gift to her, she will perceive the relationship as dull and boring because everything is good all the time. There are no big fights, there are huge arguments about seemingly insignificant things, there is just the two people having a good time and being there for each other. As a result of not having these arguments, the girl will not have anything to compare any inadequacies in her partner to and will blow small, trivial, petty, or otherwise insignificant items into something that, seems to her, worth having an argument over.
I believe it is the lack of the ups and downs, the actuallity of what a real relationship between two people who are compatible is, the want of the guy to work hard and do "little things" ALL the time, and the fact that no relationship is a fairy tale can send a girl into a tale-spin of emotional drama that eventually skewers the relationship. And by skewers i mean kills, death, die, destruction... pleasant i know :-D
so... in the name of making a circular blog entry, nice guys do finish last until girls grow up emotionally and stop looking for the unstable but appealing relationship with guys who treat them like crap... but... at the same time, these kinds of guys are about as emotionally mature as the girls who date them... so maybe those of us who have grown up are waiting for everyone else to play catch up... yes i know, im being very modest :-D
Eureka!!!
Until young women/girls grow up emotionally, they will always be attracted to assholes and nice guys will finish last. My logic is such... in my personal experience, the ex dated a guy who walked all over her and treated her like crap. When we dated, i treated her respectably and always gave her a say in everything. We never had any big arguments or fights so things were generally good. While i do not approve of walking all over your gf, there is a certain sense of loyalty that those types of girls develop as a result of the emotional rollercoaster ride they go on all the time. When they have arguments, they are usually significantly large fights about things. When things are good, everything appears to be superbly excellent because there is peace and tranquility. So, the girl sees the relationship as a function f(x) = of ups and downs, but the happiness punctuated by huge fights once a week or so provides a blinding euphoria that makes the boyfriend the "best in the world". However, if you treat your gf with respect and do not act like your are gods gift to her, she will perceive the relationship as dull and boring because everything is good all the time. There are no big fights, there are huge arguments about seemingly insignificant things, there is just the two people having a good time and being there for each other. As a result of not having these arguments, the girl will not have anything to compare any inadequacies in her partner to and will blow small, trivial, petty, or otherwise insignificant items into something that, seems to her, worth having an argument over.
I believe it is the lack of the ups and downs, the actuallity of what a real relationship between two people who are compatible is, the want of the guy to work hard and do "little things" ALL the time, and the fact that no relationship is a fairy tale can send a girl into a tale-spin of emotional drama that eventually skewers the relationship. And by skewers i mean kills, death, die, destruction... pleasant i know :-D
so... in the name of making a circular blog entry, nice guys do finish last until girls grow up emotionally and stop looking for the unstable but appealing relationship with guys who treat them like crap... but... at the same time, these kinds of guys are about as emotionally mature as the girls who date them... so maybe those of us who have grown up are waiting for everyone else to play catch up... yes i know, im being very modest :-D
Eureka!!!
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